About me

Hi, I am Aurin. I think I am a mellow radical, someone who is pretty easygoing while also holding fiercely to kis values.

I am an autistic, genderqueer antifascist and use ki, ki, kis pronouns or they, them if necessary (see below for more on Pronouns).
I was born in the 1980s in western germany and now live in Finland since 2024.

I love being queer! Some labels that apply: trans, agender, asexual, aromantic and perisex, that means non-intersex.

My chosen family and roommate is Dion who is a Black trans man. I'm white myself.

I am also disabled, aka a spoonie, maily due to trauma and abuse and the resulting eating disorder and poverty - chronic undereating and overexertion takes a toll.

I am neurospicy (neurodivergent), most notably autistic and somewhere on the plural spectrum. I/we have been more dissociated and identified as a DID (dissociative identity disorder) system while living with abusers but are currently more integrated, where other system mates no longer front. There are fewer of them now and I now consider them parts or reflections of myself.

I was born into a middle class family and received good education (Abitur in germany), but became poor and lost access to education (uni), work or any kind of safety net when I cut off contact with my abusive family, starting at age 18. I have lived in poverty ever since and have faced economic exploitation all my life.

What are Pronouns and How do I use them?

The pronouns we're talking about here are the little words we use instead of using someone's full name every time, like he, him, his, she, her, hers. I am genderqueer and neither a woman nor a man. I feel like neither "she" nor "he" fit me. Therefore I use "ki" instead.

Example sentences:

Aurin is looking at kis blog. Ki wrote the text kiself. It's kis, but Dion helped ki develop the ideas and processes kis feelings.

If you can't use ki pronouns, you can use singular they instead.